How To Turn A Girl On Over Text
In this guide I’m going to show you how to turn a girl on over text and sleep with her that same night. This example is from one of our users. You will see how he was able to get a hot blonde over straight to his place for sex with minimal effort.
In case you are curious what she looks like. Now with that out of the way, lets jump in to the tinder conversation. One important thing to point out, is that the guy in this example had a semi sexual bio, which is what inspired her opener.
Your tinder bio isn’t necessarily gonna get you new matches, but it will help you stand out from all the other guys the girl matches with. In addition, it can also sets a more sexual frame, which can help with sexualizing later on.
The guy responds to her opener by actually playing coy, which can be a risky move. It has to be done just right. The conversation moves over to travel. This is a topic pretty much every girl has an interest in. So if you’re not sure what to bring up, travel is always a safe bet.
In general, i don’t recommend having a conversation that’s just a 100% sexual. The girl might get turned on in the moment, but then when it comes time to the date it’s much more likely she will get cold feet, thinking “wait i don’t know anything about this guy”
A blend of regular banter and sexualization is ideal, which is what you’re going to see here. He is also using the “we frame” a lot here, which is a very useful technique. Instead of talking about yourself or herself, you are talking about both of you as a unit. It also provides the perfect prelude to moving things towards the date.
Here he starts sexualizing the convo. Personally, i’m not the biggest fan of the wording here, but there’s no denying the effectiveness. She responds positively
Another important thing to observe is that after he sends her that long text, he pulls back a bit with his next message “Is that so”. A common mistake guys make is that when they sexualize and get a positive response, they just keep doing more and more. This winds up over time killing the sexual tension. It is important to also occasionally pull back, as you see here
Here we see more vibing. As you’ve probably noticed, she is quite sarcastic. Fortunately, he is able to respond in kind. Another issue guys run into, is not being able to pick up on sarcasm or trolling. This comes off very low value, because it shows you lack basic social skills
In addition, It is good to combine sexualization with humor (in moderation). It allows you to be much more sexual early on without coming off as thirsty.
At this point, he starts sexualizing further. He asks about her blowjob skills, which gets a pretty lengthy response. This is called sexual investment and it is a great sign. Girls who give short & succinct responses when asked sexual questions are much more likely to be flaky later on, even if they are talking about sex
His response at the end is also solid. He rewards her lengthy answer by saying “very well put”. It is important to respond positively to sexual investment (or any kind of investment for that matter). He follows that up by creating a strong hook with his last sentence that is designed to make her intrigued
His first text here is gold. He is moving things towards the meetup, but doing it in a very smooth tongue & cheek way. She responds with the perfect setup and he goes for the same night close.
Note: This is something I would only advise if the girl is giving you hints that she is DTF at this moment, which was the case here. Her saying “that’s gotta be asap” was a very strong sign. And in these situations, if you don’t capitalize on the opportunity, there is a good chance that some other guy will.
At this point, the heavy lifting is already done, all he has to do is not fuck it up. Here, he is just moving things forward and coordinating the logistics.
It is also important to note that once he has the day & time figured out, he switches it over to text. I always recommend doing this, as it creates an extra layer of investment which can minimize last minute flaking. For more info on other important elements of text game, check out my how to text a girl guide
Here they switch over to text. I want to point out something that might seem subtle, which is her asking him about being a student at ucla. The reason for this is not because she necessarily cares where he goes to school, but more to build comfort.
She wants to be more comfortable in order to go through with the plan. Otherwise, she would just jump in the shower and tell him when shes ready. In situations like this, you just have to vibe with the girl a bit more. Answer her questions and don’t say anything creepy
Here is just more logistics. Eventually she gets ready, comes over, and they hookup. In situations like this when you sexualize over text, most of the work is already done before the girl even comes over. Just be normal and escalate.
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