How To Get A Girl To Text You Back

In this guide we are going to show you some very powerful texts you can use to get a girl to text you back. Let’s face it attractive girls on dating apps have a LOT of options and it is very likely that at some point in the convo she will leave you on read. However, we are going to show you how to handle these situations correctly. This will significantly increase the odds of her responding and you getting the date

So what do you if she stops responding?

You would send her a takeaway text. If you’re not familiar with this, a takeaway is essentially the text version of pulling back (Examples: “Don’t think too hard now” or “If you’re too nervous, id understand”

Takeaways if used correctly are very effective at getting the girl to respond. The main rule is that the takeaway you use, needs to be appropriate for the situation. For instance, if the girl forgets to respond once, you would not want to use a very harsh takeaway, like “Look, if you’re not into this, just lmk so i can stop trying”. Instead you would want to use a mild one.

Im going to share with you four of my favorite takeaway texts and the context they should be used in

4 best takeaways to get a girl to text back

1) “Don’t think too hard now”

This is a mild takeaway that is very good for situations when the girl doesn’t reply to your question. Just wait a day or two to use it. In both examples you see me trying to set up the date and the girl doesn’t reply so i use this takeaway and she responds within an hour. An alternative version of this is “don’t worry, it’s not a trick question”

2) “If you’re too nervous, id understand”

This is a mild to moderate takeaway which is very effective for situations where you’re trying to set up the date and the girl stops responding. It can also make a good tripple text as you can see in the first example. The girl didn’t respond to my voice memo or my double text (which was a very mild takeaway) so i sent this and it worked like a charm.

In the second screenshot, im also trying to move things towards the date and the girl stops responding so i use this takeaway and it leads to her apologizing for being flaky (we wound up hooking up a bunch of times). One of the reasons that this is so effective is that it is a subtle challenge. Most girls don’t want to seem like they’re nervous so it compels a response.

3) “Are you always this talkative”

This is the most versatile takeaway on this list. You can use it any time a girl stops responding (provided you waited at least 48 hours). Like the previous one, it playfully challenges the girl. In the first example, I open a girl who gave me her number and don’t hear from her so i hit her with this and the conversation is back on track

In the second example, the conversation is much further along. The girl doesn’t respond to my first takeaway so i wait a few days and tripple text her this one. It works and the conversation is also back on track

4) “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type”

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This is a harsher takeaway and thus should not be used right away. Using it at the first sign of non-responsiveness will make you come off as butt hurt. Generally, i use it as a tripple text if the first takeaway didn’t work. The only times i will use this as a double text is if there is a pattern of the girl being flakey

The reason it works so well is that no girl wants to be known as a flake. In the first example, you can see that my first takeaway failed but after i sent this one, she responds by proposing we meet tonight. This is her way of proving that she’s not a flake. You can see the same thing play out in the second example

Conclusion

Takeaway texts are the best way to get a girl to respond who is ghosting or being flaky. They allow you to be persistent without coming off as needy. However, it is essential that you use them correctly. To learn more about other elements of texting, check out my detailed how to text a girl guide

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