How To Flirt Over Text
Want to know how to flirt over text without sounding awkward?
There are many ways to flirt over text, but the most effective way is called playful teasing. For guys who are naturally good with girls this comes automatic. But, you can easily replicate it, especially when texting a girl you like
Basically, you are just messing around with the girl in a lighthearted way. The reason that this is so attractive is because the majority of guys are afraid to do it. They think that they should just play it super safe and not potentially offend her. This paradoxically kills attraction over time. Women love a guy who is not afraid to tease them or even make fun of them, as long as its in a playful way.
Flirty text examples that actually work in real life
So this screenshot begins with me reengaging the girl who i have already been talking to. However, she gives me shit for my opener so i respond by playfully giving her shit back. A mistake most guys would have made is backtracking or even apologizing and that would completely kill the attraction. Instead, i tease her
She responds by doubling down so i tease her again. My text directly addresses what she is saying, but in a playful way, rather then a logical one. As an extra bonus it semi-subtly communicates my sexual interest in her. Communicating to a girl that you find her attractive is good as long as its done in a socially tactful way. I often use humor to make that happen
Next she laughs and changes the topic while showing interest in her own way. A girl will generally ask for your IG if she is interested in you but either wants to get a better idea of what you look like or make sure you’re not a creep. Teasing the girl will build attraction like this.
Lets take a look at another example. The first half of this screenshot is just logistics. I find out she lives about an hour from me. She refer to that as being “so far” so i decide to tease her for it by saying “Is that in Africa”. I am playfully giving her shit with sarcasm. She responds positively and the conversation continues
Another pointer is that when teasing the girl don’t use a bunch of emojis. I see guys do this all the time because they are worried the girl will get offended. Unfortunately, it completely kills the effect. Don’t worry about a girl taking things the wrong way. It rarely happens and if it does you can always tell her “I was joking…”
This one is some of my best work. This starts off with the girls asking me about my week and i respond in a logical way. She mirrors that energy and asks me another logical question. This time though, i decide to mess with her a bit and tell a relatively obvious lie. She is skeptical, but not sure if I’m just trolling or telling the truth
I double down and tease her by saying that “the pics are on my Onlyfans”. She continues to play along (as most girls will) and i smoothly transition into moving things towards the date. My little birthday party trolling made the conversation a lot more exciting and engaging. Messing with a girl like this is sorta a form of playful teasing. (For more info on incorporating humor in your text game, check out my how to make a girl laugh guide)
The conversation starts off with logistics, similar to the previous example. She tells me she is busy and so i decide to mess with her. This text is quite spicy. I am using it only because the convo leading up to this was sexual. Had that not been the case, I might have said something like:
“Studies found that a glass of wine with me increased exam results by a whopping 85%”
She plays along with the “is your info credible” text. The last thing i wanna do her is reply with something logical and so I tease her some more. You can see this works incredibly well. The girl is laughing and talking about oral sex. That is a big improvement from her telling me she needs to study for an exam.
Conclusion
Don’t be like most guys who play it safe and/or reply logically to everything. The girls will eventually get bored and ghost. Even if you do get a date, you will have a much harder time closing because the frame is too serious. Instead, keep things fun and flirty. Utilizing playful teasing like i mentioned is one of the easiest and most effective ways of doing this. For more details on other crucial elements of text game, check out my comprehensive how to text a girl guide
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